marriage


Today is my 4th wedding anniversary , but we are going through a financially challenging time, so my husband and I both agreed not to spend any money on gifts for each other so I wasn't expecting anything special for today. To my surprise, when I came downstairs this morning, I found a bouquet of the most beautiful wild flowers that my husband had picked from a near by field at 6am. What a thoughtful and beautiful gift!

GENUINE AFFECTION


It’s about that time I usually bid my day a bye with a sigh of satisfaction escaping my closed lips. It doesn’t actually escape, it involuntarily sets itself free. The day has been long and tiring and trying to cope with Eve’s misdemeanor. She is the first of our species to find out that all that glitters are illegal or unworthy. The whole humanity now is painfully toiling in order to pluck the fruits and accord hunger a decent send off.

I slide my tired body, carefully, as if it hurt or afraid to disturb a nocturnal creature who had made a sojourn in my bed, inside my sheets. Relief greeted me, accompanied by a muted sigh as the mind went back to the parting day, assessing the successes and the pitfalls that came along. Lessons appeared triumphant.

The day is never a day-well-spent when you do not wish a dearly beloved a good night. I have had trouble many mornings preceding the nights I slept without bidding her a good night. I forget on purpose (ask any man) but the questions you get the morning after only allow her to make assumptions because I have never answered them satisfactorily. Now am thinking of her. She has brought the real meaning of living, the real feel of love. She genuinely adores me and I do more than her.

As a fumbled with the keys of my phone, trying to mix words, in a bid to come up with a deep poem for her, the phone rang. I smiled as I read ‘sweetheart’ as I had saved her. The ringtone helped increase the pace of my heartbeat. It was a song that drove her to the point of ecstasy, of course after me. So many times she rang me, often when I am trying to text her, or when am reaching for my phone to call her. Love brings forth pleasant coincidence, the kind that you want to happen every day.

I really love her. The joy of my life is to see her happy always. I don’t anything or anybody to harm her because I’m her soldier ready to fight every war that life pit against us. Distance though has robbed us the chance to show the affection eye to eye, hold each other close and our breathes being swallowed by our silent whispers heard far away. She is the realest thing I hold with utmost care like a treasure.

I picked up the phone and her soft voice drove me to world that surpassed the abundance of the bliss heaven had on offer. She tickled me into frenzy with an unsettling sensation going through my body like a ripple. I wanted her there and then. If the urge would have enabled men to grow wings I would have been the first one after Daedalus and Icarus, from the tales we read while growing up.

I listened as she talked making her know I was paying attention. Silence sometimes prompts one to make an inquiry if they are speaking alone or otherwise. What’s more beautiful than being missed by somebody you love? What’s the most awesome thing in the world than being important to somebody and being treasured more than you do to your own self? It’s a feeling that transcends everything.

The lengthy talk is always brought to a denouement by good night wishes and the sweet dreams. The byes aren’t my cup of tea. I always conclude a conversation with a ‘take care’. I never know why but I always want her to great care not dream of nightmares.

As the sound of the phone hanging up came through, I was plunged into my own world. I stared at the text I was about to send; my sweetheart, you are a rare being in the world for showing me what it means to love and I will give you my genuine affection…….it sounds like a teenage love letter but that was the message I intended to pass her, plus a couple of hugs and kisses, toppling with I love you. I drifted off holding my phone.

I woke up in the morning to find everything deleted except GENUINE AFFECTION on the text. I smiled knowing there was more truth than those two words.

Sunday, 23 February 2014

2014 midterm races to test Tea Party power to last

WASHINGTON — The 2014 primary election season that kicks off March 4 may serve as a test of the Tea Party's ability to shape the Republican Party.
The movement that became a potent political force in the 2010 elections and helped Republicans retake control of the House is at war with the Republican establishment and taking on GOP incumbents in a handful of key races.
All but one of six Tea Party challenges to Senate Republican incumbents this year are in states where a primary victory is tantamount to a general election victory. In these heavily Republican states — in theory — a Tea Party candidate should have the best opportunity for victory because primaries tend to see lower turnout races populated by the party's base.
"If they (Tea Party candidates) don't do well, if they can't do it in red states against incumbents, then how effective are they really?" said Jennifer Duffy, a non-partisan election analyst for The Cook Political Report. "I think this is going to be a pretty decisive cycle in terms of that question."
Despite the 2010 Tea Party wave and historically low congressional approval ratings, incumbents remain heavily favored to win primary battles. Nearly 99% of incumbents won their primaries in 2012.
The GOP campaign committees, particularly the National Republican Senatorial Committee, have pressed incumbents to prepare themselves for primary opponents while warning outside GOP consultants not to work with challengers. House Speaker John Boehner, R-Ohio, has publicly waged battle with outside conservative groups, such as the Club for Growth, that fuel many of these 2014 incumbent challengers. He accused the groups in December of "using the American people for their own goals."
The establishment has wised up to the threat. "All of our incumbents are coming back," said Rob Collins, executive director of the NRSC. "They have not only built the best campaigns to get out their message, they have raised the resources they need, and their votes and their legislative record reflect the majority of the Republican electorate in their states."
Though anti-incumbent candidates face uphill battles and few advantages in 2014, there is no less enthusiasm this cycle among Tea Party activists and candidates seeking to upend the status quo.
"It's really about establishment incumbents who have been here way too long. They've gotten comfortable with business-as-usual vs. people in America and the candidates that represent them who actually want to come here and do what they said they were going to do," said Matt Kibbe, president of FreedomWorks, a Tea Party group that has endorsed a handful of candidates this cycle.
ADVANTAGE: INCUMBENT
Senate GOP incumbent primaries are playing out in some of the nation's most conservative states: Kansas, Mississippi, South Carolina, Tennessee and Texas.
Texas Republican John Cornyn is poised to easily dispatch his March 4 primary challenger, Rep. Steve Stockman, who never mustered the statewide organization or fundraising to mount a serious challenge. Tennessee's Lamar Alexander is likewise the heavy favorite in his August primary race against state Rep. Joe Carr.
Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell of Kentucky is more likely to face trouble from his likely Democratic challenger, Alison Lundergan Grimes, than from his May primary opponent, Matt Bevin. McConnell led Bevin by 26 percentage points in a recent poll.
At a Washington candidate forum hosted by FreedomWorks, Bevin was confident he could close the gap. "I like where we are. It's always good to be the underdog. It's good to be the stealth player under the radar screen," he said. "The reality is, we're closing (the gap)."
TEA PARTY CHALLENGERS
Duffy estimates Mississippi's Thad Cochran, 76, is the most vulnerable Senate Republican, largely because he hasn't faced a tough race since 1984.
"He's been moving away from our conservative base for an awful long time," said Chris McDaniel, a state senator and Cochran's leading opponent. "They're (voters) looking for change, and they sense that change is possible this time, and they're very enthusiastic."
Like Bevin, McDaniel is backed by FreedomWorks and the Club for Growth. Though many primary challengers struggle to raise funds, McDaniel raised nearly half a million dollars in the early weeks of his campaign.
Sen. Pat Roberts of Kansas faces a spirited challenge from Milton Wolf, a distant cousin of President Obama. Roberts may have been weakened by a recent New York Times story indicating that he does not own a home in the state.
Sen. Lindsey Graham of South Carolina has amassed at least five opponents for his contest. Unless Graham can muster 50% in the primary June 10, which is difficult in a crowded field, he will race a one-on-one runoff two weeks later. Runoff primaries can be politically perilous for incumbents because they generally have even lower turnout than primaries.
TEA PARTY TRIO IN THE HOUSE
While the anti-establishment outside groups are focused on the Senate, where control of the chamber is up for grabs, three veteran GOP incumbents in the House – Reps. Pete Sessions of Texas, Mike Simpson of Idaho and Bill Shuster of Pennsylvania – face high-profile primary challenges.
Simpson has a well-funded challenger, Bryan Smith, who is backed by the Club for Growth.
Sessions faces Katrina Pierson, a Tea Party activist and television commentator who was endorsed by former Alaska governor Sarah Palin. Pierson has failed to raise much money to compete in the Dallas-area media market. Shuster faces a Tea Party-aligned Coast Guard retiree named Art Halvorson, who has failed to raise the kind of money that makes incumbents pause.
Kibbe said the grass-roots movement to reshape the GOP will be won in incremental victories.
"I think they're (establishment candidates) going to have a hard time winning, but it's at the margin," he said, "We have to add more of our candidates to the House and Senate caucus, and over time, we become the new normal."

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LOVE POEMS

I COULD BUT LOVE YOU*

The days gone by hold memories

So much of all those nice stories

Stories of our lives thereafter

Punctuated by your sweet laughter



Walking, talking under the starlit sky

Smiling silently without knowing why

Silent though we got so much to say

Assured that tomorrow would be okay



I love you so much my sweetheart

Like the abundance of sand in a desert

So is my love for you, so real and true

I want to live forever just for you



In the horizon the sun's just turned red

And my tomorrow is but a dread

If by your own, you won't be there

I will die, there won't be any air



*THE AMAZING FEELING*

The buzz of the phone beckons you attention

It's the love of your life trying to reach you

Friends have gotten tired of their mention

Their presence in this world gets you through

Long and stressful days just as the nights

On dark nights they are the light



It's an amazing feeling to find true love

It carries you way beyond imaginable lands

Swifter than the carrier doves

Infinite but it can fit in your hands

The amazing feeling of true adoration

Surpasses everything worth admiration



*BEHIND YOUR EYES*

Sometimes am caught in a day dream

Dreaming of a dream I live everyday

It's been like this since I saw you

You beauty enslaved my imagination

The glitter in your eyes captured me



Every morning I wake up

It's your pretty face that's my alarm

Telling to rise up to see you

You are a true meaning of perfection

Forever I will be glad that are in my life



I wanna have your heart forever

Coz I've given you mine

Do the best with that you can

For you are so perfect

This love is the realest of al I've known



*I SEE ME IN YOUR EYES*

Like rose petals in the morning bloom

You sweep my feet off the ground

And I fly, fly like little bird making no sound

Am flying to get a kiss from you

Your embrace, the next best thing

After the gearless all night embrace

I see the meaning of life in your eyes

I see me and you skin to skin every night

I see life unfolding in your eyes

I see love-true love



*IMMUNE TO HEARTACHE *

I'm staring at the emptiness you absence accords me

It's like all those days when I could fantasies about you

My breath being taken away by what I could see

But your absence is forever, I hoped you were true



I didn't think there would be a day when I could ask you to stay

And that would be asking too much of your precious time

Now I struggle to go through my days trying to keep you at bay

Often I fail, every time, coz forgetting you feels inhumane- a crime



For once in my life I realized what it means to be in love

It means to wait for someone to break your heart while holding on

It means being immune to all things that fall from above

Coz that may hold you from going on straight from dawn