marriage


Today is my 4th wedding anniversary , but we are going through a financially challenging time, so my husband and I both agreed not to spend any money on gifts for each other so I wasn't expecting anything special for today. To my surprise, when I came downstairs this morning, I found a bouquet of the most beautiful wild flowers that my husband had picked from a near by field at 6am. What a thoughtful and beautiful gift!

GENUINE AFFECTION


It’s about that time I usually bid my day a bye with a sigh of satisfaction escaping my closed lips. It doesn’t actually escape, it involuntarily sets itself free. The day has been long and tiring and trying to cope with Eve’s misdemeanor. She is the first of our species to find out that all that glitters are illegal or unworthy. The whole humanity now is painfully toiling in order to pluck the fruits and accord hunger a decent send off.

I slide my tired body, carefully, as if it hurt or afraid to disturb a nocturnal creature who had made a sojourn in my bed, inside my sheets. Relief greeted me, accompanied by a muted sigh as the mind went back to the parting day, assessing the successes and the pitfalls that came along. Lessons appeared triumphant.

The day is never a day-well-spent when you do not wish a dearly beloved a good night. I have had trouble many mornings preceding the nights I slept without bidding her a good night. I forget on purpose (ask any man) but the questions you get the morning after only allow her to make assumptions because I have never answered them satisfactorily. Now am thinking of her. She has brought the real meaning of living, the real feel of love. She genuinely adores me and I do more than her.

As a fumbled with the keys of my phone, trying to mix words, in a bid to come up with a deep poem for her, the phone rang. I smiled as I read ‘sweetheart’ as I had saved her. The ringtone helped increase the pace of my heartbeat. It was a song that drove her to the point of ecstasy, of course after me. So many times she rang me, often when I am trying to text her, or when am reaching for my phone to call her. Love brings forth pleasant coincidence, the kind that you want to happen every day.

I really love her. The joy of my life is to see her happy always. I don’t anything or anybody to harm her because I’m her soldier ready to fight every war that life pit against us. Distance though has robbed us the chance to show the affection eye to eye, hold each other close and our breathes being swallowed by our silent whispers heard far away. She is the realest thing I hold with utmost care like a treasure.

I picked up the phone and her soft voice drove me to world that surpassed the abundance of the bliss heaven had on offer. She tickled me into frenzy with an unsettling sensation going through my body like a ripple. I wanted her there and then. If the urge would have enabled men to grow wings I would have been the first one after Daedalus and Icarus, from the tales we read while growing up.

I listened as she talked making her know I was paying attention. Silence sometimes prompts one to make an inquiry if they are speaking alone or otherwise. What’s more beautiful than being missed by somebody you love? What’s the most awesome thing in the world than being important to somebody and being treasured more than you do to your own self? It’s a feeling that transcends everything.

The lengthy talk is always brought to a denouement by good night wishes and the sweet dreams. The byes aren’t my cup of tea. I always conclude a conversation with a ‘take care’. I never know why but I always want her to great care not dream of nightmares.

As the sound of the phone hanging up came through, I was plunged into my own world. I stared at the text I was about to send; my sweetheart, you are a rare being in the world for showing me what it means to love and I will give you my genuine affection…….it sounds like a teenage love letter but that was the message I intended to pass her, plus a couple of hugs and kisses, toppling with I love you. I drifted off holding my phone.

I woke up in the morning to find everything deleted except GENUINE AFFECTION on the text. I smiled knowing there was more truth than those two words.

Sunday, 23 February 2014

14 unforgettable moments from the Sochi Olympics

KRASNAYA POLYANA, Russia — See you in Pyeongchang. Now that the 2014 Winter Olympics have come to a close, the IOC moves its focus to the next cold-weather spectacle in South Korea in 2018. During these two weeks in Russia, we've seen a number of storylines that will likely continue into those Games (Mikaela Shiffrin, the U.S.-Canada hockey rivalry). Some storylines represent the end of an era (Bode Miller) and ones that will remain unique to this very memorable host (#sochiproblems).
THEY SAID IT: Best quotes from the Olympics
As we head out of Sochi and return to our usual scheduled programming of NCAA March Madness, NBA and NHL regular season games and MLB spring training, let's take a final look at the 14 moments that we'll remember most from the 2014 Winter Olympics.
FTW: 10 memorable moments
The four Olympic rings (and an asterisk)
After months of reports questioning Russia's readiness to host the Games the host spent $50 billion to produce, the country was determined to make a bold statement during the opening ceremony at Fisht Stadium.
Then the fifth Olympic ring failed to show up.
Five giant illuminated snowflakes were supposed to morph into the Olympic rings, but the final one failed to make that transition, leading to one of the most visible early #sochiproblems. (That's the Twitter hashtag used throughout the Games if you haven't been paying attention.)
SENSE OF HUMOR: Opening ceremony director pokes fun
The mishap was just one small part of an otherwise well-executed welcome to the Games. In addition to the parade of nations, the three-hour ceremony featured a ballet rendition of War and Peace, glow in the dark dancers spinning to Swan Lake, a program saluting Russian history and yes, president Vladimir Putin's rumored girlfriend as one of the torchbearers.
Olympians adopting lots of stray puppies
U.S. slopestyle skier Gus Kenworthy is bringing home more than his silver medal from Sochi. The 22-year-old Colorado resident scored a 10 from adoring fans stateside when he announced his plan to adopt five stray dogs found at the Gorki Press Center in the mountain cluster. Kenworthy posted a photo of himself cuddling with one of the two puppies he'll keep, while his mother and brothers will each keep one of the other dogs.
Snowboarder Lindsey Jacobellis took one back to the U.S. with her and hockey player David Backes and his wife were also working behind the scenes to find American homes for other rescued pups.
Unlike Kenworthy, luger Kate Hansen didn't bring her Sochi stray back to the States with her. It didn't exist. The wolf she reportedly filmed roaming the halls of her hotel room was part of a hoax she collaborated on with late night host Jimmy Kimmel. USA Luge officials, who condemned the prank in a statement, didn't find it quite as funny.
Abbott does his best Tupac impersonation
Johnny Cash, Tupac Shakur, Johnny Rotten. Jeremy Abbott? The 28-year-old figure skater did his best to channel those anti-authoritarian figures when addressing the media following his final Olympic performance, where he finished 12th in the free skate the night after a spectacular crash in the short program. Asked about his propensity to come up short at big international events, Abbott let it fly.
"You know I just want to put my middle finger in the air and say a big, 'F-U,' to everyone who's ever said that to me. Because they've never stood in my shoes, and they've never had to do what I had to do. Nobody has to stand center ice in front of a million people and put an entire career on the line for eight minutes of their life when they've been doing it for 20 some years. And if you think that's not hard then you're a damn idiot."
The awesomeness of the Dufour-Lapointe family
It's an amazing feat to win an Olympic medal. It's even more incredible when two siblings can place first and second in their event. That's what happened to the Dufour-Lapointe sisters of Montreal, as Justine, 19, and Chloe, 22, stood atop the podium holding hands after winning gold and silver respectively in the women's moguls. Older sister Maxime placed 12th.
It got a little misty in the spectator area at the Rosa Khutor Extreme Park – and not from the spraying powder – when the trio's mom, Johane Dufour, and dad, Yves Lapointe, realized that their two youngest daughters had become Olympic medalists.
"I'm so happy for my three daughters, all three Olympians, two medals at home. Incredible. I'm so anxious to grab and kiss them. I haven't had a chance the last three weeks, so bring me my babies!" Dufour exclaimed.
American-born snowboarder wins gold medal for Russia, right after his wife won bronze
Washington native Vic Wild says he wasn't getting the financial and logistical support he needed from the U.S. Ski and Snowboard Association to continue in the sport, so the alpine snowboarder became a Russian citizen after marrying fellow snowboarder Alena Zavarzina in 2011. Wild's decision paid off, as he won the men's parallel giant slalom just moments after Zavarzina took bronze in the women's event.
The most poignant part? One of Wild's best friends and former U.S. teammates cheering him on as he did it. Justin Reiter, the only U.S. competitor in the event, has had to live out of his truck at times to finance his participation in the sport.
"This is a kid that sacrificed everything to get what he wanted," Reiter said. "He has the support of a country behind him, and he never stopped working. A lot of people would get that foundation they need to support their dreams and then back off, with Vic it just made him hungrier, made him work harder and be more persistent. He had so much pressure coming into these Games, because he's an investment for this country. He had to perform, and now he's the Olympic champion."
After winning the parallel slalom event Saturday, he's a two-time Olympic champion.


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LOVE POEMS

I COULD BUT LOVE YOU*

The days gone by hold memories

So much of all those nice stories

Stories of our lives thereafter

Punctuated by your sweet laughter



Walking, talking under the starlit sky

Smiling silently without knowing why

Silent though we got so much to say

Assured that tomorrow would be okay



I love you so much my sweetheart

Like the abundance of sand in a desert

So is my love for you, so real and true

I want to live forever just for you



In the horizon the sun's just turned red

And my tomorrow is but a dread

If by your own, you won't be there

I will die, there won't be any air



*THE AMAZING FEELING*

The buzz of the phone beckons you attention

It's the love of your life trying to reach you

Friends have gotten tired of their mention

Their presence in this world gets you through

Long and stressful days just as the nights

On dark nights they are the light



It's an amazing feeling to find true love

It carries you way beyond imaginable lands

Swifter than the carrier doves

Infinite but it can fit in your hands

The amazing feeling of true adoration

Surpasses everything worth admiration



*BEHIND YOUR EYES*

Sometimes am caught in a day dream

Dreaming of a dream I live everyday

It's been like this since I saw you

You beauty enslaved my imagination

The glitter in your eyes captured me



Every morning I wake up

It's your pretty face that's my alarm

Telling to rise up to see you

You are a true meaning of perfection

Forever I will be glad that are in my life



I wanna have your heart forever

Coz I've given you mine

Do the best with that you can

For you are so perfect

This love is the realest of al I've known



*I SEE ME IN YOUR EYES*

Like rose petals in the morning bloom

You sweep my feet off the ground

And I fly, fly like little bird making no sound

Am flying to get a kiss from you

Your embrace, the next best thing

After the gearless all night embrace

I see the meaning of life in your eyes

I see me and you skin to skin every night

I see life unfolding in your eyes

I see love-true love



*IMMUNE TO HEARTACHE *

I'm staring at the emptiness you absence accords me

It's like all those days when I could fantasies about you

My breath being taken away by what I could see

But your absence is forever, I hoped you were true



I didn't think there would be a day when I could ask you to stay

And that would be asking too much of your precious time

Now I struggle to go through my days trying to keep you at bay

Often I fail, every time, coz forgetting you feels inhumane- a crime



For once in my life I realized what it means to be in love

It means to wait for someone to break your heart while holding on

It means being immune to all things that fall from above

Coz that may hold you from going on straight from dawn