marriage


Today is my 4th wedding anniversary , but we are going through a financially challenging time, so my husband and I both agreed not to spend any money on gifts for each other so I wasn't expecting anything special for today. To my surprise, when I came downstairs this morning, I found a bouquet of the most beautiful wild flowers that my husband had picked from a near by field at 6am. What a thoughtful and beautiful gift!

GENUINE AFFECTION


It’s about that time I usually bid my day a bye with a sigh of satisfaction escaping my closed lips. It doesn’t actually escape, it involuntarily sets itself free. The day has been long and tiring and trying to cope with Eve’s misdemeanor. She is the first of our species to find out that all that glitters are illegal or unworthy. The whole humanity now is painfully toiling in order to pluck the fruits and accord hunger a decent send off.

I slide my tired body, carefully, as if it hurt or afraid to disturb a nocturnal creature who had made a sojourn in my bed, inside my sheets. Relief greeted me, accompanied by a muted sigh as the mind went back to the parting day, assessing the successes and the pitfalls that came along. Lessons appeared triumphant.

The day is never a day-well-spent when you do not wish a dearly beloved a good night. I have had trouble many mornings preceding the nights I slept without bidding her a good night. I forget on purpose (ask any man) but the questions you get the morning after only allow her to make assumptions because I have never answered them satisfactorily. Now am thinking of her. She has brought the real meaning of living, the real feel of love. She genuinely adores me and I do more than her.

As a fumbled with the keys of my phone, trying to mix words, in a bid to come up with a deep poem for her, the phone rang. I smiled as I read ‘sweetheart’ as I had saved her. The ringtone helped increase the pace of my heartbeat. It was a song that drove her to the point of ecstasy, of course after me. So many times she rang me, often when I am trying to text her, or when am reaching for my phone to call her. Love brings forth pleasant coincidence, the kind that you want to happen every day.

I really love her. The joy of my life is to see her happy always. I don’t anything or anybody to harm her because I’m her soldier ready to fight every war that life pit against us. Distance though has robbed us the chance to show the affection eye to eye, hold each other close and our breathes being swallowed by our silent whispers heard far away. She is the realest thing I hold with utmost care like a treasure.

I picked up the phone and her soft voice drove me to world that surpassed the abundance of the bliss heaven had on offer. She tickled me into frenzy with an unsettling sensation going through my body like a ripple. I wanted her there and then. If the urge would have enabled men to grow wings I would have been the first one after Daedalus and Icarus, from the tales we read while growing up.

I listened as she talked making her know I was paying attention. Silence sometimes prompts one to make an inquiry if they are speaking alone or otherwise. What’s more beautiful than being missed by somebody you love? What’s the most awesome thing in the world than being important to somebody and being treasured more than you do to your own self? It’s a feeling that transcends everything.

The lengthy talk is always brought to a denouement by good night wishes and the sweet dreams. The byes aren’t my cup of tea. I always conclude a conversation with a ‘take care’. I never know why but I always want her to great care not dream of nightmares.

As the sound of the phone hanging up came through, I was plunged into my own world. I stared at the text I was about to send; my sweetheart, you are a rare being in the world for showing me what it means to love and I will give you my genuine affection…….it sounds like a teenage love letter but that was the message I intended to pass her, plus a couple of hugs and kisses, toppling with I love you. I drifted off holding my phone.

I woke up in the morning to find everything deleted except GENUINE AFFECTION on the text. I smiled knowing there was more truth than those two words.

Sunday, 23 February 2014

Tiffany Lawrence Jason Barrett and the Politics of Meth

With pharmaceutical industry money contaminating West Virginia politics like a bad chemical in the water, legislation that would require a prescription for meth-fueling pseudoephedrine is on the ropes in the state legislature.
The Consumer Healthcare Products Association — the pharmaceutical industry — is spending big money to defeat the legislation.
The industry just spent $10,000 to $15,000 on a study that claimed that passing the bill into law would cost the state $149.9 million over the next ten years. The study’s author, West Liberty University Associate Professor Serkan Catma, appeared on Talkline with Hoppy Kercheval earlier this week and admitted that he only looked at one side of the equation and deliberately did not look at how the law would benefit West Virginia in lives, injuries and emergency and law enforcement resources saved.
The pharmaceutical industry is also flooding the airwaves, including Kercheval’s radio show, with ads featuring a homemaker named “Emily” claiming that “some state lawmakers in Charleston want to limit our access to the cold and allergy medicines we rely on because some criminals use it to make meth.”
“They are trying to pass a law that forces us to see a doctor and to get a prescription for the same kind of medicine that my family has used for years — medicines like Zyrtec D and Claritin D,” Emily says. “If the law passes, it will cost us more because of doctor office visits. And it will take more of our precious time. They should punish the criminals, not families like ours. I’m calling our elected officials to tell them that they should not make life harder for families like ours. I found out how at stopmethnotmeds.com.”
(MetroNews is owned by Kercheval buddy Republican John Raese. Kerchavel and his wife contributed $4,800 to Raese’s 2010 Senate campaign. But even given Kercheval’s political bias, he came out last week in favor of the legislation, saying “I would vote for it because the police support it.” )
Of course, what the pharmaceutical industry homemaker “Emily” doesn’t say in the radio ad — and what the Big Pharma robocalls that are flooding the state don’t say — is what everybody knows — the legislation exempts tamper resistant pseudoephedrine products — products that can’t be easily made into methamphetamine. You will be able to buy those tamper resistant drugs without a prescription.
But as usual, it’s not about the truth, it’s about the money. The pharmaceutical industry stands to lose billions if the law sweeps the country. Oregon and Mississippi have already passed it. And if West Virginia, the state routinely ranked last in “well being” surveys, passes a law that says no to the pharmaceutical industry while at the same time protecting it’s own people from shake and bake meth fires and injuries, we might start moving up in the rankings.
In 2011, the House of Delegates passed the prescription bill overwhelmingly by a vote of 77 to 23. But the bill died in the Senate on a tie 16-16 vote.
This year, things are reversed. The Senate last week passed the bill by a vote of 25 to 9 vote. But the bill is on the ropes in the House and the Democratic House leadership is nervous about bringing the bill to the House floor before the end of the session.
The bill will be voted upon by the House Judiciary Committee probably within the next couple of weeks.
The difference between 2011 and 2014?  This year is an election year. And fence sitters in the House are looking at Big Pharma’s money and right wing corporatist challengers and saying — can I really afford to do the right thing?
House of Delegate Democrats Jason Barrett (D-Berkeley) and Tiffany Lawrence (D-Jefferson) are leaning no. Both won their 2012 elections by thin margins.
Barrett did not return calls seeking comment.
When asked how she will vote on the legislation, Lawerence wrote — “I don’t believe at this time that we should require a prescription for pseudoephedrine products.”
She then sent pharmaceutical industry talking points.
Lawrence has taken pharmaceutical industry contributions in her 2012 election campaign, including from Merck (makers of pseudoephedrine product Claritin D) and a pharmacists PAC.
When asked about these contributions, Lawrence wrote that “no decision that I ever make on legislation is any result of any contribution my campaign PAC receives.”
“I do research and weigh feedback and facts from my constituents and state and national sources,” she said.
“I’ve been endorsed by PACs that represent healthcare and hospitals in the past as well, but am somewhat offended by the idea that any decision I support or not support be linked to funding. That simply isn’t good public policy and I don’t legislate based on contributions. My vote on any issue has never and will never be for sale.”
“I take my job very seriously while balancing the ideas of all of my constituents before making educated decisions,” Lawrence said.
She then returns to her pharmaceutical industry talking points.
“We should crack down on criminals and not law-abiding consumers when it comes to this issue as presented currently,” she writes.
How are we cracking down on consumers exactly? Consumers can still get the tamper resistant product without a prescription.
In response to this, Lawrence sends follow up pharmaceutical industry talking points.
“Significant amounts of meth could be made with this tamper ‘proof ‘ drug with common cook methods,” Lawrence said. “This is why I’m not certain we are fixing the actual problem with the current form of the bill.”
One problem with that pharmaceutical industry talking point?
Like most of them — it’s not true. First of all, no one claimed they are tamper “proof.” They are tamper resistant. That means that if a meth maker wants to make meth out of them, they can, but only 10 percent to 25 percent of what you could make from non tamper resistant pseudoephedrine. And it’s not worth it to a meth maker to make meth out of tamper resistant meth. That’s why the Food and Drug Administration approved it for sale as “tamper resistant.”
With the pharmaceutical industry hot on their trail, Lawrence and Barrett are running scared. Why not, instead, stop running, stand tall with Hoppy Kercheval, law enforcement personnel, and your constituents and just say no to the pharmaceutical industry?

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LOVE POEMS

I COULD BUT LOVE YOU*

The days gone by hold memories

So much of all those nice stories

Stories of our lives thereafter

Punctuated by your sweet laughter



Walking, talking under the starlit sky

Smiling silently without knowing why

Silent though we got so much to say

Assured that tomorrow would be okay



I love you so much my sweetheart

Like the abundance of sand in a desert

So is my love for you, so real and true

I want to live forever just for you



In the horizon the sun's just turned red

And my tomorrow is but a dread

If by your own, you won't be there

I will die, there won't be any air



*THE AMAZING FEELING*

The buzz of the phone beckons you attention

It's the love of your life trying to reach you

Friends have gotten tired of their mention

Their presence in this world gets you through

Long and stressful days just as the nights

On dark nights they are the light



It's an amazing feeling to find true love

It carries you way beyond imaginable lands

Swifter than the carrier doves

Infinite but it can fit in your hands

The amazing feeling of true adoration

Surpasses everything worth admiration



*BEHIND YOUR EYES*

Sometimes am caught in a day dream

Dreaming of a dream I live everyday

It's been like this since I saw you

You beauty enslaved my imagination

The glitter in your eyes captured me



Every morning I wake up

It's your pretty face that's my alarm

Telling to rise up to see you

You are a true meaning of perfection

Forever I will be glad that are in my life



I wanna have your heart forever

Coz I've given you mine

Do the best with that you can

For you are so perfect

This love is the realest of al I've known



*I SEE ME IN YOUR EYES*

Like rose petals in the morning bloom

You sweep my feet off the ground

And I fly, fly like little bird making no sound

Am flying to get a kiss from you

Your embrace, the next best thing

After the gearless all night embrace

I see the meaning of life in your eyes

I see me and you skin to skin every night

I see life unfolding in your eyes

I see love-true love



*IMMUNE TO HEARTACHE *

I'm staring at the emptiness you absence accords me

It's like all those days when I could fantasies about you

My breath being taken away by what I could see

But your absence is forever, I hoped you were true



I didn't think there would be a day when I could ask you to stay

And that would be asking too much of your precious time

Now I struggle to go through my days trying to keep you at bay

Often I fail, every time, coz forgetting you feels inhumane- a crime



For once in my life I realized what it means to be in love

It means to wait for someone to break your heart while holding on

It means being immune to all things that fall from above

Coz that may hold you from going on straight from dawn