It’s one of the things when
bestowed by somebody you feel elevated beyond your social status. Trust is the
belief that somebody is good, honest and sincere that regardless of how things
go they will always stand by what both of you hold as right.
There are people you trust and
they are that I trust and that never makes them trustworthy to both of us. It all
depends on our relationship between us. Lovers find each other trustworthy and
share many things together; close family members trust each other too and close
friends.
Trust sometimes is misused. It might
be spoken in abundance, yet may never live up to its true definition. Callous friends,
family members and lovers utilize the word to their advantage, especially for
personal gains. Blinded by the close relations we give almost everything that
we have only to realize we’ve been taken for a ride, perhaps to hell or some
filthy place you have never imagined existed.
It is not the best thing to doubt
someone close to you. Every time you are on the lookout so that you are not
caught unaware by their misdeeds. It’s never a nice thing to always weigh their
words, trying to detect a measure of truth in them or trying to imagine what
they are up to every time you are not watching. They make you unnecessarily
paranoid.
The most difficult thing is
trusting again after being let down. It’s hard to trust a lover who cheated you
or on you, it’s even harder to trust a friend who took you for that ride you
never asked for and the is the hardest to trust that brother who let you down
and still has the guts to say hi to you.
People sometimes operate under the
disguise of immunity to heart ache and go about conducting their business with
recklessness of a toddler. They are oblivious to your pain or are aware but
never feel it. They prance about not knowing that lady karma is waiting for an opportune
moment to strip them off their pride. The world is a cycle and everything under
it goes round in a circle.
Those who have borne the brunt of
trusting those they shouldn’t have should be glad of the lessons taught by
them. As they learn to grapple with the reality of a wicked world and learning to
trust again their anguish is being soothed by fate.
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