marriage
Today is my 4th wedding anniversary , but we are going through a financially challenging time, so my husband and I both agreed not to spend any money on gifts for each other so I wasn't expecting anything special for today. To my surprise, when I came downstairs this morning, I found a bouquet of the most beautiful wild flowers that my husband had picked from a near by field at 6am. What a thoughtful and beautiful gift!
GENUINE AFFECTION
It’s about that time I usually bid my day a bye with a sigh of satisfaction escaping my closed lips. It doesn’t actually escape, it involuntarily sets itself free. The day has been long and tiring and trying to cope with Eve’s misdemeanor. She is the first of our species to find out that all that glitters are illegal or unworthy. The whole humanity now is painfully toiling in order to pluck the fruits and accord hunger a decent send off.
I slide my tired body, carefully, as if it hurt or afraid to disturb a nocturnal creature who had made a sojourn in my bed, inside my sheets. Relief greeted me, accompanied by a muted sigh as the mind went back to the parting day, assessing the successes and the pitfalls that came along. Lessons appeared triumphant.
The day is never a day-well-spent when you do not wish a dearly beloved a good night. I have had trouble many mornings preceding the nights I slept without bidding her a good night. I forget on purpose (ask any man) but the questions you get the morning after only allow her to make assumptions because I have never answered them satisfactorily. Now am thinking of her. She has brought the real meaning of living, the real feel of love. She genuinely adores me and I do more than her.
As a fumbled with the keys of my phone, trying to mix words, in a bid to come up with a deep poem for her, the phone rang. I smiled as I read ‘sweetheart’ as I had saved her. The ringtone helped increase the pace of my heartbeat. It was a song that drove her to the point of ecstasy, of course after me. So many times she rang me, often when I am trying to text her, or when am reaching for my phone to call her. Love brings forth pleasant coincidence, the kind that you want to happen every day.
I really love her. The joy of my life is to see her happy always. I don’t anything or anybody to harm her because I’m her soldier ready to fight every war that life pit against us. Distance though has robbed us the chance to show the affection eye to eye, hold each other close and our breathes being swallowed by our silent whispers heard far away. She is the realest thing I hold with utmost care like a treasure.
I picked up the phone and her soft voice drove me to world that surpassed the abundance of the bliss heaven had on offer. She tickled me into frenzy with an unsettling sensation going through my body like a ripple. I wanted her there and then. If the urge would have enabled men to grow wings I would have been the first one after Daedalus and Icarus, from the tales we read while growing up.
I listened as she talked making her know I was paying attention. Silence sometimes prompts one to make an inquiry if they are speaking alone or otherwise. What’s more beautiful than being missed by somebody you love? What’s the most awesome thing in the world than being important to somebody and being treasured more than you do to your own self? It’s a feeling that transcends everything.
The lengthy talk is always brought to a denouement by good night wishes and the sweet dreams. The byes aren’t my cup of tea. I always conclude a conversation with a ‘take care’. I never know why but I always want her to great care not dream of nightmares.
As the sound of the phone hanging up came through, I was plunged into my own world. I stared at the text I was about to send; my sweetheart, you are a rare being in the world for showing me what it means to love and I will give you my genuine affection…….it sounds like a teenage love letter but that was the message I intended to pass her, plus a couple of hugs and kisses, toppling with I love you. I drifted off holding my phone.
I woke up in the morning to find everything deleted except GENUINE AFFECTION on the text. I smiled knowing there was more truth than those two words.
Thursday, 9 May 2013
MAN-U MANAGER
British history announced yesterday
that he will be stepping down from
the Old Trafford hot seat after 26
years in charge of the Premier
League giants.
Below are 10 facts about the 71-
year old Scot that many people do
not know courtesy of BBC.
1. Once ran a pub : Ferguson has
worked outside football, starting out
as an apprentice toolmaker and shop
steward in Glasgow and much later
running a pub that he renamed
Fergie's with a downstairs bar named
the Elbow Room in memory of his
physical style as a player.
2. Intrigued by JFK: Gordon Brown
sent him numerous CDs about the
assassination of JFK. Ferguson
bonded with Brown over a shared
interest in US politics. "Gordon sent
me 35 CDs on it, which was brilliant
of him," he told Manchester radio
station Key 103 in 2007.
Ferguson is fascinated with JFK. He
said he kept JFK's autopsy report by
his bed. He also has a copy of the
Warren Report signed by [the former
US president] Gerald Ford.
3. Gave the young Kenny Dalglish
lifts: When Ferguson was at Rangers
he gave lifts to a young Kenny
Dalglish who was hoping to be
signed. "Fergie used to give us a lift
into town. He had such a big car,"
Dalglish told the Guardian.
When Dalglish was picked up by city
rivals Celtic he was forced to play
centre back and mark Ferguson in a
reserve team game.
4. Told Alastair Campbell to get a
masseur for Tony Blair: Ferguson
was a big Labour donor and advised
Tony Blair on leadership. The idea of
getting a masseur for the election
"battle bus" may have been a step
too far, he later admitted. Better
advice was when he said: "So long as
you can keep all your key people in
the same room at the same time,
you'll be fine."
5. Not the longest serving
manager : Ferguson was manager of
Manchester United for 26-and-a-half
years. The longest serving league
manager in Europe was Guy Roux,
who occupied the hotseat at French
team Auxerre for 44 years, finally
stepping down in 2005.
Ferguson isn't even the longest
serving Scottish manager. Willie
Maley was Celtic manager from
1897-1940, clocking up 43 years.
6. Used to jump over walls as a
boy: He grew up in a poor area of
Glasgow where there wasn't much
to do apart from play football, fight
and jump over walls, known as
dykes. "The dangerous ones had
names - the king, the queen, the
suicide, the diamond, the spiky,"
Ferguson once said. "You'd go to
different areas of Govan to challenge
each other into jumping dykes
because it was very dangerous. But
you do that when you're a kid
because you've got no fear."
7. "Fergie time" is 79
seconds: "Fergie time" is the widely
held belief by supporters of other
team, that if Man Utd are losing
after 90 minutes, the referee will
extend injury time long enough for
them to equalise or win.
Last year, the BBC analysed Fergie
time. It found that Man Utd were
not unique in being given extra
injury time when they were losing,
although it appeared they got more
than other teams. Games went on
79 seconds longer when Manchester
United were losing than winning.
Man Utd's towering achievement -
securing the treble with victory in
the 1999 European Champions
League - was achieved in Fergie
time, when they reversed a Bayern
Munich lead, by scoring two goals
after the 90th minute.
8. Alex or Alec? Many people in
football refer to him as Sir Alec,
assuming that his Scottish
background will mean his name is
pronounced in that way. But
Scotland is strangely split on the
Alex/Alec question, with people
slipping between the two, often
without noticing.
BBC Sportsound presenter Richard
Gordon said he had found himself
using both forms. He said that
former Ferguson colleague Willie
Miller often calls him Alec when
talking on the radio and ex-Scotland
manager Craig Brown is prone to
using the informal Alec, quickly
followed by the more respectable Sir
Alex.
Carole Hough, professor of
onomastics, says she can think of no
particular reason why people would
choose one or the other, except that
Alec is slightly shorter. She said both
names were popular in Scotland and
England, with Alec perhaps having
more currency north of the border.
9. The "hairdryer treatment" and
"squeaky bum time": Ferguson was
responsible for two memorable
coinages. Players speak in awestruck
tones of what it is like to be on the
receiving end of Sir Alex's temper.
The "hairdryer" - for its sound and
heat - became the chosen phrase.
Players talk of the moment a switch
is flicked in Fergie's head, he presses
his face close to you and emits a
terrifying torrent of abuse. Former
United winger Lee Sharpe - famed
for his extracurricular activities - has
been credited with inventing the
term.
David Beckham said: "The fear of
getting the hairdryer was the reason
why we all played so well. He was a
manager you wanted to do well for."
Ferguson also put his finger on the
agony of watching a tense sporting
moment. It is thought he first used
"squeaky bum time" in March 2003
as his Manchester United team
clawed back the lead from rivals
Arsenal in a tense finale.
It has become part of the football
argot, especially at the climax of a
season. It first entered the Collins
English dictionary in 2005 with the
definition "the tense final stages of a
league competition, especially from
the point of view of the leaders".
Wikipedia notes the act of
"squirming or moving forward and
back in one's seat while watching an
exciting sporting event".
10. Home is called
Fairfields : Ferguson lives in a
mansion in Wilmslow, Cheshire. It is
called Fairfields after the shipyard
where his father worked.
-BBCThe Longest serving manager in
British history announced yesterday
that he will be stepping down from
the Old Trafford hot seat after 26
years in charge of the Premier
League giants.
Below are 10 facts about the 71-
year old Scot that many people do
not know courtesy of BBC.
1. Once ran a pub : Ferguson has
worked outside football, starting out
as an apprentice toolmaker and shop
steward in Glasgow and much later
running a pub that he renamed
Fergie's with a downstairs bar named
the Elbow Room in memory of his
physical style as a player.
2. Intrigued by JFK: Gordon Brown
sent him numerous CDs about the
assassination of JFK. Ferguson
bonded with Brown over a shared
interest in US politics. "Gordon sent
me 35 CDs on it, which was brilliant
of him," he told Manchester radio
station Key 103 in 2007.
Ferguson is fascinated with JFK. He
said he kept JFK's autopsy report by
his bed. He also has a copy of the
Warren Report signed by [the former
US president] Gerald Ford.
3. Gave the young Kenny Dalglish
lifts: When Ferguson was at Rangers
he gave lifts to a young Kenny
Dalglish who was hoping to be
signed. "Fergie used to give us a lift
into town. He had such a big car,"
Dalglish told the Guardian.
When Dalglish was picked up by city
rivals Celtic he was forced to play
centre back and mark Ferguson in a
reserve team game.
4. Told Alastair Campbell to get a
masseur for Tony Blair: Ferguson
was a big Labour donor and advised
Tony Blair on leadership. The idea of
getting a masseur for the election
"battle bus" may have been a step
too far, he later admitted. Better
advice was when he said: "So long as
you can keep all your key people in
the same room at the same time,
you'll be fine."
5. Not the longest serving
manager : Ferguson was manager of
Manchester United for 26-and-a-half
years. The longest serving league
manager in Europe was Guy Roux,
who occupied the hotseat at French
team Auxerre for 44 years, finally
stepping down in 2005.
Ferguson isn't even the longest
serving Scottish manager. Willie
Maley was Celtic manager from
1897-1940, clocking up 43 years.
6. Used to jump over walls as a
boy: He grew up in a poor area of
Glasgow where there wasn't much
to do apart from play football, fight
and jump over walls, known as
dykes. "The dangerous ones had
names - the king, the queen, the
suicide, the diamond, the spiky,"
Ferguson once said. "You'd go to
different areas of Govan to challenge
each other into jumping dykes
because it was very dangerous. But
you do that when you're a kid
because you've got no fear."
7. "Fergie time" is 79
seconds: "Fergie time" is the widely
held belief by supporters of other
team, that if Man Utd are losing
after 90 minutes, the referee will
extend injury time long enough for
them to equalise or win.
Last year, the BBC analysed Fergie
time. It found that Man Utd were
not unique in being given extra
injury time when they were losing,
although it appeared they got more
than other teams. Games went on
79 seconds longer when Manchester
United were losing than winning.
Man Utd's towering achievement -
securing the treble with victory in
the 1999 European Champions
League - was achieved in Fergie
time, when they reversed a Bayern
Munich lead, by scoring two goals
after the 90th minute.
8. Alex or Alec? Many people in
football refer to him as Sir Alec,
assuming that his Scottish
background will mean his name is
pronounced in that way. But
Scotland is strangely split on the
Alex/Alec question, with people
slipping between the two, often
without noticing.
BBC Sportsound presenter Richard
Gordon said he had found himself
using both forms. He said that
former Ferguson colleague Willie
Miller often calls him Alec when
talking on the radio and ex-Scotland
manager Craig Brown is prone to
using the informal Alec, quickly
followed by the more respectable Sir
Alex.
Carole Hough, professor of
onomastics, says she can think of no
particular reason why people would
choose one or the other, except that
Alec is slightly shorter. She said both
names were popular in Scotland and
England, with Alec perhaps having
more currency north of the border.
9. The "hairdryer treatment" and
"squeaky bum time": Ferguson was
responsible for two memorable
coinages. Players speak in awestruck
tones of what it is like to be on the
receiving end of Sir Alex's temper.
The "hairdryer" - for its sound and
heat - became the chosen phrase.
Players talk of the moment a switch
is flicked in Fergie's head, he presses
his face close to you and emits a
terrifying torrent of abuse. Former
United winger Lee Sharpe - famed
for his extracurricular activities - has
been credited with inventing the
term.
David Beckham said: "The fear of
getting the hairdryer was the reason
why we all played so well. He was a
manager you wanted to do well for."
Ferguson also put his finger on the
agony of watching a tense sporting
moment. It is thought he first used
"squeaky bum time" in March 2003
as his Manchester United team
clawed back the lead from rivals
Arsenal in a tense finale.
It has become part of the football
argot, especially at the climax of a
season. It first entered the Collins
English dictionary in 2005 with the
definition "the tense final stages of a
league competition, especially from
the point of view of the leaders".
Wikipedia notes the act of
"squirming or moving forward and
back in one's seat while watching an
exciting sporting event".
10. Home is called
Fairfields : Ferguson lives in a
mansion in Wilmslow, Cheshire. It is
called Fairfields after the shipyard
where his father worked.
-BBC
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LOVE POEMS
The days gone by hold memories
So much of all those nice stories
Stories of our lives thereafter
Punctuated by your sweet laughter
Walking, talking under the starlit sky
Smiling silently without knowing why
Silent though we got so much to say
Assured that tomorrow would be okay
I love you so much my sweetheart
Like the abundance of sand in a desert
So is my love for you, so real and true
I want to live forever just for you
In the horizon the sun's just turned red
And my tomorrow is but a dread
If by your own, you won't be there
I will die, there won't be any air
The buzz of the phone beckons you attention
It's the love of your life trying to reach you
Friends have gotten tired of their mention
Their presence in this world gets you through
Long and stressful days just as the nights
On dark nights they are the light
It's an amazing feeling to find true love
It carries you way beyond imaginable lands
Swifter than the carrier doves
Infinite but it can fit in your hands
The amazing feeling of true adoration
Surpasses everything worth admiration
Sometimes am caught in a day dream
Dreaming of a dream I live everyday
It's been like this since I saw you
You beauty enslaved my imagination
The glitter in your eyes captured me
Every morning I wake up
It's your pretty face that's my alarm
Telling to rise up to see you
You are a true meaning of perfection
Forever I will be glad that are in my life
I wanna have your heart forever
Coz I've given you mine
Do the best with that you can
For you are so perfect
This love is the realest of al I've known
Like rose petals in the morning bloom
You sweep my feet off the ground
And I fly, fly like little bird making no sound
Am flying to get a kiss from you
Your embrace, the next best thing
After the gearless all night embrace
I see the meaning of life in your eyes
I see me and you skin to skin every night
I see life unfolding in your eyes
*IMMUNE TO HEARTACHE *
I'm staring at the emptiness you absence accords me
It's like all those days when I could fantasies about you
My breath being taken away by what I could see
But your absence is forever, I hoped you were true
I didn't think there would be a day when I could ask you to stay
And that would be asking too much of your precious time
Now I struggle to go through my days trying to keep you at bay
Often I fail, every time, coz forgetting you feels inhumane- a crime
For once in my life I realized what it means to be in love
It means to wait for someone to break your heart while holding on
It means being immune to all things that fall from above
Coz that may hold you from going on straight from dawn

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